I grew up between Hong Kong and Sydney, never fully one, never fully the other. For years, I interpreted that tension as something wrong with me. It wasn’t. It was cultural duality without integration. What I eventually understood is this: The conflict wasn’t about choosing sides. It was about building an identity strong enough to hold both. That realisation shaped my work. Today, I specialise in intergenerational repair and attachment dynamics for Asian millennials and couples navigating cultural tension, relational anxiety, and inherited expectations. Because culture and family are not background details. They shape: • How you attach • How you argue • How you set boundaries • How you experience guilt • How you define success Most people don’t consciously choose these patterns. They inherit them. My work is not about surface-level reassurance. It’s about dismantling inherited relational programming and rebuilding secure, culturally grounded relationships. You will be challenged. You will be asked to examine your blind spots. And you will build the emotional clarity and directness required to stop performing and start feeling secure in it. Therapy here isn’t about fixing you. It’s about strengthening your identity so you can show up without guilt, without apology, and without self-betrayal. If you’re ready for structural change, we’ll work well together.